.However what Astrid does not realize but is a reality that both Ortega and O'Hara-- that has pair of kids-- may verify: The reality that your connection with your moms and dads adjustments and grows as you both grow older, as well as perhaps for the better. "Your world centers around [your kids] when they are actually little ones [and also] it's so much work but wonderful," O'Hara states. "Later, you actually skip that, due to the fact that at that point you can't receive them to accomplish anything you prefer them to carry out, since they start cultivating their very own thoughts, their own opinions." And also ultimately, you wind up in the place O'Hara, whose kids reside in their 20s and 30s, discovers herself now, capable to learn from her kids. "They are actually merely such amazing younger men," she says. "I'm not their friend, however I love possessing talks along with all of them as well as learning more about how they think about life.".